Have you ever taken out a bottle of water or a jar of soda out of the freezer and it looks as if it’s still liquid? But the moment you begin to shake it, it freezes up into solid ice. It’s as if all it really needed was a kind of reassortment of its particles so that it could be what it is meant…
It’s not out of pity, you help your partner up, but out of the following feeling “When her head is on my shoulders
it doesn’t just stop the thinking of my mind,
but it creates an emotional dimension that rips the fabric of space and time,
like the purpose of our love, made from the ashes of a phoenix,
to become a cycle of purification….
It…Took me 5 years to realize….the definition of my wife….
Testing the applications of my way of life….
Learning to place me into a reality,
Where i look at the shadowed idea of me…
Realizing, I will never be, what I claim to be, or want to be,
But Ill simply be a slave to the daily decisions I make
You were right ..forever a slave “
When your heart is with your lord, it doesn’t change…there is no change of heart, cause the essence of your existence is the format of your true form, If you see Allah set in it…then idk why you would be worried, … lol
Have you ever taken out a bottle of water or a jar of soda out of the freezer and it looks as if it’s still liquid? But the moment you begin to shake it, it freezes up into solid ice. It’s as if all it really needed was a kind of reassortment of its particles so that it…
In my opinion, I think you need to better define the roles of the husband wife and family. What purpose they have for you…n etc…..It’s a LOOONG read, but it will shake you
Dear Future Wife
Dear Future Wife:
I’m not really thinking about you. I’m thinking about Him.
I’m not worrying or planning. I’m contemplating and reacting.
I’m not working to support you. I’m working to support our family.
I’m not going to live to make you happy. I’m going to live to make my Lord pleased with us.
I’m not looking for a girlfriend. I do see many others, but I’ll only raise my eyes when I’m ready to be a husband - a man who can stand and look your children in their eyes and tell them of Him.
I don’t really care what you did or do. I trust Him.
I don’t really care about what you wear.
As long as your heart is covered with modesty.
I want you to care about what I wear.
And make sure my heart is covered with modesty.
I’ll always love my parents and your parents more than you.
They gave us us. I won’t follow your lusts or my lusts.
I’ll make sure we’re following His rule.
Perfecting our lusts, making them legal, unleashing our passion, full and pure, deep and true, water and fire inside clay.
I want you to remind me of Him, like I want to remind you of Him.
It’s not being judgmental, and it’s not an attack, or a grudge.
It’s giving reminders, a hope, and a prayer.
The Hereafter is the difference. The world is temporary.
I want you to say, “I love You more than I love you.”
I want you to allow me to say it, want me to say it, live for me to say it, too.
Because I promise to do the same for you.
I want to spend forever with you There.
Because I love you.
But I love Him so much more.
Because He allows me to say that I love you.
As long as I do it the right way.
And live in I love You.
Ah, I can’t even tell the difference anymore.
Everything’s whirling around.
The tornado hits the spot. In a trusting heart.
Let’s find one another there.
Brought together by Him.
Let’s not even look for one another.
But bear witness to Him in all things, at all times.
She’s my everlasting inspiration, That will never mount to any subjugation. She’s the limitations I’m breaking With our conversations Which will never be forsaken,
She’s the rise to my fall, And the path when I’m lost. My eyes, when I’m blind, So i can stay on my grind. She’s my drive.. Always bringing me back to life.
When her head is on my shoulders it doesn’t just stop the thinking of my mind, but it creates an emotional dimension that rips the fabric of space and time, like the purpose of our love, made from the ashes of a phoenix, to become a cycle of purification…. It…Took me 5 years to realize….the definition of my wife….
Testing the applications of my way of life…. Learning to place me into a reality, Where i look at the shadowed idea of me… Realizing, I will never be, what I claim to be, or want to be, But Ill simply be a slave to the daily decisions I make You were right ..forever a slave
““Uncertainty is the only certainty there is, and knowing how to live with insecurity is the only security.” Keep in mind, “that the chains that bind us, break so lightly.” “So when you face their form of cruelty, Hadouken or break the chains with scrutiny”,”—Renzo/Paulos/Hadouken
silence of the night, forcing your deepest darkest memories to light looking at your mistakes, having trouble understanding if you’re real or fake,
Or if ur even the person u say to be..… feeling like I’m living in the shadowed idea of me As if i know exactly who I want to be,
but have no path to achieve this state of being, while these desires cover up the path…. all i have is the mistakes of my past…. I’ll never forgive myself,
Cause I haven’t changed, I’m still the shadowed idea of me, Thinking he can become an actual human being, hahahahahahaha, That’s a better way of saying, Im the dog looking at my owner thinking its me , i need sleep lol
u can’t take a small part [marriage] of the whole gigantic system of living and judge it, alone, you need to take every dynamic of marriage and Islam, to understand the wisdom behind it
cause we aren’t knowledgeable enough to even know how the dynamics of a Muslim marriage is and we haven’t experienced it, or seen it since it doesn’t exist anymore (to my experience)
so when ur baffled by these hadiths and system of living, just keep in mind, that men and woman aren’t equal, they can not do each others jobs,
instead they each have responsibilities to maintain, these are responsibilities Our God has commanded us to have in a marriage or as a person, why?
cause he made us, so he knows what is best for us to do,
well, in this case, when a woman doesn’t have an excuse, she isn’t sleepy, groggy, mad at her hubby, unable to do the act n she’s not doing it on purpose, that means she’s playing a game, by withholding sex, n the person who gives into having sex is controlled by the woman holding sex…. so it becomes a game of control…. obviously…..
so in those games of control ur allowed to take away ur responsibilities for her, since she took away her responsibilities for u…. n those are the specific responsibilities allowed, get it?
iA I’m right on this, it’s my point of view, n may Allah swt forgive me if I have said anything wrong….
did you ever become friends with someone so beautiful? and then they started telling you about the douchebags in their lives that did horrible things to them, like cheat and lie. and the only thing running through your mind is “who would ever want to hurt someone like you?”
at the end of the day we just wanna go to sleep…knowing our decisions didn’t ruin lives, but bettered them….that our existence…made the world a better place…while we could barely even keep ourselves away from our own self destruction